Divorcing whilst serving in the military, or other relationship breakdown, can be a costly experience – both emotionally and financially. Unfortunately, dealing with the emotional fallout of a divorce can take some time, but there are some things you can do to help keep down the financial costs of your divorce.
For instance, when you start your military divorce proceedings, you will need to have an initial meeting with your solicitor. This is where you present them with all of the relevant information they need to get the process underway.
It is really helpful if you are able to collect this together in advance as it means your solicitor will have less work to do – meaning it will take less time and you won’t have to pay as much.
Information for your first meeting
Vital information for your first meeting includes:
• Your personal details (name, DOB, address, spouse’s name, names and ages of your children if you have any)
• A summary of your financial information (property details, information of any debts, pensions, shares and investment information)
• Your marriage certificate
Completing Form E
This is a document in which you need to give details of your family’s finances.
You don’t need to complete this document at the beginning of any divorce proceedings – and your solicitor can provide you with a black for me and explain to you what needs completing. However If you want to keep down your divorce costs, it’s a really good idea if you can fill in as much of this form as you can.
You should also provide your solicitor with any relevant supporting documentation: the form should detail what you are required to provide.
Valuing your military pension
As part of your divorce, you will almost certainly need a valuation of your Armed Forces pension. Your solicitor can arrange this for you, but if you are able to do it yourself it will keep your costs to a minimum. You can normally do this by writing to:
Veterans UK Pension Division
65 Brown Street
Remember to include Form P with your letter.
Although a Kentigern House valuation is a good way to start, your solicitor will probably advise you to get a separate formal actuarial valuation of your pension – the Veterans UK valuations don’t always show the true value of a military pension.
Collecting your financial documentation
You will need certain financial documents throughout the divorce procedure and getting hold of them yourself will help keep costs down. Your solicitor will be able to tell you exactly what you need, but you can help by making sure you have:
• Mortgage redemption statement and a valuation of your home if you have one (3 valuations from local estate agents is a good course of action)
• 3 recent payslips and your P60
• A year’s worth of bank statements
• Latest credit card bill
• Information on any other financial assets, such as shares or a life insurance policy
Respond promptly to your Lawyer
Another good trick to save money is to make sure you respond promptly to all correspondence from your lawyer; if they have to send you reminders, this will cost you more money.
Consider collaborative law or family mediation
You could also look at other legal options such as collaborative law or family mediation, which could offer an alternative way to resolve your disputes and help you avoid going to court.
For the right couples, these two approaches to divorce can work really well – resulting in less hostility and bitterness, a speedier financial settlement and sometimes considerably less legal costs.Our family law team includes a jointly accredited family lawyer/mediator and a collaborative lawyers.
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